Finally Normality... whatever that means

It took 18 days but I'm finally over that stupid flu. Still have a cough but at least I'm not in pain (face-ache). The last week DP has been pretty useless, his dr put his medication up from 50mg to 150mg of Zoloft. Technically it was his own fault he had to start over, he was on 200mg then stopped taking it cold turkey - idiot. By the time he got back on it he had to start at 50mg again. So today he said "It's nurophen I'm not supposed to take". I'd asked him ages ago, I was sure he wasn't supposed to take it but he said 'no, it's nurophen plus'. No, he can take panadol, not nurophen. It's not affected him until he's been on the higher dose of Zoloft though. Apparenty today wasn't the first time, he said one of the other days last week he was tired and went to bed he'd taken nurophen, then this morning he took 3 for a headache and it knocked him around so now it's 2.15pm and he's gone to bed.

He's done nothing in the kitchen, surprise surprise. The dishes I did this morning are in the drying rack still. Yesterday I was home most of the day and he didn't do anything. What annoys me is that he says to DD 5 "I'll just clean up the kitchen and we can do some cooking" then he sits on the computer all bloody day. Last week was the same. Wednesday he said he would cook, he did nothing. Then Thursday he was home all day on the computer, apparently doing 'work' for a 'client'... I was out most of Thursday again. And Friday we went to playgroup in the morning and all I heard from DP was how he'd clean up in the kitchen and cook with DD 5... by tea time I was sick to death of it so I did heaps of dishes and cooked before tea went in. We ended up eating late but I told DP off and said for 3 days he said he'd cook and I was sick of waiting. That's the problem with DP... I called him a "gunna"... he hates that term - "Gunna do this and gunna do that"... then they do nothing. That's him! He did make some biscuits with the little ones before they went to bed, left it late IMO though.

Saturday was shopping day then we were home for the afternoon. Sunday I had to take DD 16 to compete for the day. We didn't get home until 8.30pm. The kitchen was a mess, especially considering they had little franks for lunch and DS 13 went to the local shop to buy chips for tea!

Today he wanted a hug before I left, and I told him not to bother with affection. I'm so mean. However when he asked why I said because he needs to start doing more, like use the software he frigging bought earlier this year! "Get it out there", I said. Bloody hell, he paid for it because he reckoned it would be so popular with businesses then he doesn't let anyone know he has it! So fucking sick of that. He spends hours and hours making websites and putting together programs etc then doesn't do anything with them. It shits me. And the fact that he spent money on this one program... not to mention hosting and domain names and all that other crap he says he'll get businesses helping to pay for... it's not going to happen if he sits on his arse at home all day! OMG, he also has this one 'client' that he had to get some stuff from to finish a website, he emails the guy for months then finally the guy rocks up on our doorstep, he hadn't checked his email or DP had the wrong addy, I dunno, but he tells DP to call him!!! Pick up the phone!!! DP tells me that's why he asked the guy if the addy was one he checked regularly, because he wanted to deal with him via email... I said at some point he will have to deal with people on the phone or in person! If he can't do that then he's trying to get in to the wrong business. Argh!!!!

I have to go soon and the kitchen is a mess, I've spent 20 minutes typing here while DD 2 naps and DD 5 has been drawing. The living room is pretty horrible too, really needs vacuuming. At least we've had a couple of nicer days, yesterday I got so much laundry done. Today is back to being grey but I've hung out some sheets and towels anyway. DP is snoring, I can hear him from here (he is up the other end of the hallway) I'm surprised it hasn't woken DD 2 LOL